When I first started planning my older son’s decor, the themes available were quite limited. I wanted something for his room that could carry him through his infant years and into elementary age (and possibly further). Yet, it was difficult to find themes for him that weren’t too babyish and not too mature.
We decided on a transportation theme. It was very “boy” and was something I could see staying with him for quite a number of years. We had sheets with trains, planes and trucks on them. His comforter was a solid color, but he had a traffic light bedside lamp, a tractor fan pull, a fire truck rocking chair, and a cute school bus rug.
Then, my husband was transferred, and I was faced with redecorating yet another room. This time, though, my son was older. And, he had a few opinions of his own. While the transportation theme had been cute, age-appropriate and fun, it wasn’t HIS. He wanted to choose his own style, and my husband and I agreed.
His new room is a space theme. He (and now his little brother) have handmade quilted comforters with planets, stars and rockets on them. We painted his room a light navy and adhered glow-in-the-dark stars to the vaulted ceiling. My son wanted the planets painted on a wall in his room, and while I was happy to oblige, I also wanted him to take ownership in his room. So, I took artists’ canvas board and painted them to match the wall color. Then, my son had a ball, painting his own planets on the canvas boards. We hung them on the wall, and his room is now alive with rockets, stars and space toys. He creates his own decorations from time to time, and he designed a space mobile that hangs in front of his window.
By allowing my son to take part in the transformation of his space, I have given him ownership and responsibility for it. He takes great pride in showing everyone his own abilities, and he tends to be more careful with his belongings and furniture, especially since he helped pick it out. Involving your child in a process such as this is a wonderful way to teach planning, budgeting, organization and ownership. After all, your child has to live there, too – why not make it someplace they truly enjoy?
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